Is the swinger lifestyle for singles?
Swingers are all around you. They may be your neighbor, a co-worker, or the person sitting next to you. Swingers come in all races, shapes and sizes. Most swinging couples range in age from 20 to 50, are educated, and many have professional occupations. Be cautious on limiting yourself to Ken and Barbi types or a narrow age range. You will miss out on some amazing swinger lifestyle experiences.
Swingers are all unique in their own ways. However, most couples are in committed relationships. To be successful, swinging couples are able to view love and sex as two separate experiences. Sex is a physical desire that can be best satisfied with multiple partners, but love is an intimate commitment to their special mate. The swinger lifestyle provides choices that “vanilla” couples can only dream.
Women also have the chance to take control or partake in physical pleasures without a fear of retribution. One thing swinging is not… cheating on your partner. If you are looking for an affair, look elsewhere. Swinging is about committed couples sharing in physical pleasures.
So, if swinging is all about couples, what about singles? As always, ladies first… a key thing to remember when swinging. Single females are highly sought after by many swinging couples. For women who respect and compliment the couple’s desires, your date card will always be full. Gentlemen… not so fast. You are an accessory in the swinger lifestyle. Not all couples are interested in single men and those who are can afford to be very selective.
Men, if you find yourself fortunate enough to receive the interest of a couple, you must remember that swinging couples are king, be respectful, take time to understand their wishes, and be ready to extend some common courtesies such as taking the couple out for dinner and drinks, then picking up the tab. If invited to their home, bring a bottle of their favorite wine and dress to impress. If playtime includes a hotel, pay for the room.
Where do you look for swingers to begin making connections? Ten year ago, finding people to play with was a challenge, but now, with the internet, choices are plentiful. To get the most out of the lifestyle, select a website that embraces the whole lifestyle so you can learn, have fun, and meet some amazing people. Start by creating a free profile at a site that has robust features such as email, chat, IMs, swinger parties, lifestyle stories, interest groups, member blogs, forums, photos, contests, and good search options. Swinging couples are everywhere, start sexploring today.
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