A Letter To The 25-year-old Women
When you are above 25, or you can hardly be described as a young girl, please know that you are not as attractive as the 18-year-old girls, no matter how beautiful you are. You are not in the age that you can say “Love means anything to me” any more. If you believe love is more important than bread, or that the man who always say “I love you” cares about you more than anything else, I have to say, you are shamefully childish.
You prime task is to think about how to marry a man who likes you and you consider to be nice. Believe in him when he is holding you hands and say “I love you” to you. But do also believe that the 3 words “I love you” have a time limit. The precondition is that you make good use of the time limit. Unless you are a dreamboat, you’d better be an ordinary woman who is looking forward to her marriage. So girls, if you find a boy you want to marry, please don’t wait to marry him until he can afford a house or a car or something else. The reality is that when he is rich enough, his social status has also risen. He has become a rare bachelor and is facing more temptations. Your waiting and the pledges he has made to you can not resist the overwhelming tempatations.
In other words, if you wait to get married with a man until he has gained enough wealth, the bride in his wedding may be another woman. A competent man is like a bottle of wine—the old he is, the attracitve he is. On the contrary, aging is the natural enemy to women. Imagine you are a 35-year-old diomand bachelor who has everything. A 30-year-old capable woman, or a 20-year-old beautiful girl, which do you prefer? A really competent man doesn’t care whether a woman can help him to gain more wealth.
If you find your Mr. Right, do not waste your time. He may not have a house or a car, as long as he works hard, he is a promising blue chip— the earlier you got him, the more benefit you will get.
Every woman has the right to pursue anything she wants. If she find a man who loves her, she can live a peaceful and simple life, with his accompanying everyday. If she hasn’t meeted him, she must keep some necessary substances to make herself safe and warm.
